However, I sometimes find it all too draining. I have a hard time finding a good balance. I end up wasting too much time on the internet looking at facebook, blogs and pinterest. And, I usually get off feeling drained and unfulfilled with a list of projects from pinterest going through my mind(which sometimes cause me to feel discontent.) and wondering if anyone's commented on my new blog post. (embarrassing to admit but I'm sure I'm not the only one.)
With facebook I could have hundreds of friends and still feel disconnected and alone somehow. Don't get me wrong, I know that not everyone feels that way. These are my personal feelings that I experience. Everyone has different needs socially. I like to connect with people in person. I like to see their faces and hear their voices. When I focus to much time on the cyber world my real, physical world seems to suffer.
Even though I could be on for short bursts throughout the day, there are to many short bursts that add up.
I don't want people to think I'm against technology because I'm not. I don't judge people who love facebook, pinterest, etc. I also love those things a little too much I guess. I just need to make some changes for myself personally.
Last night Tyson and I were talking about a goal to limit our time on the internet. I am excited about this goal and think it will help me focus on the things that are truly important. After talking about it I happened to be reading an article about revelation. I realized I need to take more time during the day to study and receive revelation. Here is a part of the article that resonated with me.
As we repeatedly respond to the Light of Christ and train ourselves to “lay hold upon every good thing” (Moroni 7:19),
we increase our sensitivity to the things of the Spirit and enhance our
ability to receive messages from our eternal home. As we sincerely seek
and are worthy to receive, our Eternal Father often communicates with
us through revelation—messages that come to us in the reflective moments
of prayer, through the words and enlightenment of the scriptures, from
the teachings of the prophets, or in the peaceful melodies of heavenly
music. His messages are often quiet, and we can miss them if we are not
ready to receive them.
In fact, it is often because
we are so busy receiving other messages that we impair our ability to
receive the much-needed messages from our eternal home. We live in a
world in which messages surround us, even bombard us. Our smartphones,
our computers, and our tablets are constantly buzzing, beeping, and
vibrating with every new text, social media update, email, and
photograph. It really is instant and insistent messaging.
I realized I was spending more time with facebook and pinterest everyday than I was trying to nourish my spirit. I think my goal will help me to find more balance and happiness.
On a side note.....I've been texting more and I like it. It is fast and you seem to get a quicker response. I am really, really slow but that's okay. So, those of you with my #, feel free to text me if you need to call. That is, until I run our of minutes of course. ;) lol
3 comments:
Sounds like you need to take time for yourself. That is why I run. It is time to reflect/ponder/receive inspiration. I love being alone with my thoughts, my sweat, and God.
Even when the kids are with me running, it is still great. There is just something about being outside in His creations that makes it easier to communicate with Him. After accomplishing time for me/God then social media stuff is a joy and not a burden.
And we are supposed to use it for good, and to spread the good word however we can. I used to not like it so much, but now I LOVE it. It just has to be used properly, and it can be a great tool for good!
Really though, you should try jogging by yourself sometime . . . clear your mind and body. Let yourself be free. Do it for a month or more, and you might find your moxie. :-)
Mari, maybe I should make finding my moxie a goal! :) I'm looking forward to the fall and school starting. That way I can go on walks after my kids go to school in the nice crisp air. I always love to be outside then. It's so hot right now I do not enjoy being outside. So far my internet goal has been going really well and I feel better. I still enjoy the world wide web, just in moderation. Balance is key! :)
I feel the same way! Love hate the internet.
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